Successful Musicians Play On Purpose
Making a living playing music is a dream for a lot of amateur musicians. They watch their favorite pros and imagine themselves up there gigging. If they’re connected with the band and/or have the talent, they may get to sit in for a few tunes and grab a piece of the dream. Some actually join a band and play out locally while holding down their day jobs. Eventually, when the pressures of the job, family, and home life get too much, they put their music aside to “get back to it later.”
Does this sound familiar? I can definitely relate to it since I’ve been down that road. I tried to juggle two bands, a job, a house, four dogs and a wife, not necessarily in that order and eventually something had to give. The fact is that I got to where having a gig stopped being a thrill and started being a burden. Man, when playing music gets to be a drag, there’s something seriously wrong!
I’ve always thought I wanted to be a professional musician. I’ve played for almost 50 years now off and on. The key words there being “off and on.” I’ve come to realize that while I have the talent to be a full time musician, I don’t have the passion it takes to get there. In other words, it’s not my purpose in life to play music.
Don’t get me wrong, I love music and I love playing. I just don’t love it enough to put it as my number one priority.
I know a number of pro musicians for whom playing is their life. They could no more stop playing than stop breathing! They are truly great players because everything else is a lower priority for them.
When it comes to music, they’re living on purpose. They know they were put here to play music and doing something else with their lives simply isn’t an option, except on a temporary, as-needed basis. In other words, if the rent has to get paid, they hustle a side job for a while, but the priority is always their music.
So, you might be asking, “If they’re living on purpose, why aren’t they all super-successful?” There’s a difference between living your purpose and embracing it. In the case of the superstar musicians who are performing in front of thousands every time they play, they’ve embraced their purpose. The ones still struggling in clubs to make ends meet are still buying into the belief that you can’t make a living doing something you love to do. It’s the old “Starving Artist” myth and in some cases it’s an excuse for why they’re not more successful.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a musician or an airline pilot or an accountant. If you’re not tuned in to your purpose and committed to living your purpose, you will struggle. There are any number of reasons why people are afraid to fully commit to their purpose, too many to detail here.
The bottom line is that everybody has a purpose and everybody could be successful if they knew and embraced their purpose fully. If you’re struggling as a musician, it’s because you’re not clear on what your purpose is and/or not fully committed to it. If you’re a music fan struggling with the rest of your life, the same thing is true. The key to success in anything is to identify and commit to your unique purpose in this life.
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